There’s nothing better than seeing a familiar face when you’re thousands of miles from home – a face that brings comfort, happiness, and floods of memories lasting nearly 2 decades. When the day I got to see Sam in Dublin finally came, I nearly peed my pants leaving work I was so excited. I think I may have actually peed my pants some when I was expecting to meet her in Temple Bar, and instead she jumped out in front of me on the street 2 blocks before I even got to Temple Bar. Maybe not, but I did tear up some while we were hugging…which is totally normal.
Sam’s family moved out of Houston last year. We grew up 14 houses down from each other, and now I only get to see her when I go to Austin or when she’s in Houston for a few days during holidays. I hadn’t seen her parents or sister in so long, and it was indescribable how nice it was just to be around a family. During dinner our conversation drifted into subject matter I’m not sure I’ve ever talked about with my friends parents before. It hit me how much older we really are getting – especially when Mr. Toner asked what my next step was after I graduate. I can’t even get my fall schedule figured out, and thinking about jobs and where I’ll go after Alabama scares the hell out of me. I suppose I came here to figure out what sort of direction I want to take, but the application of all of it seems surreal.
After dinner I took Sam to one of my favorite bars here, Pygmalion. We sat on the couches and caught up, while she told me about her summer in Barcelona. If dinner conversation hadn’t shown me how grown up we’ve become, this conversation did. She seemed like she was in such a good place…and despite some life lessons she learned, she had the strongest head on her shoulders I’ve seen her with yet. We might be talking about more “grown-up” things these days, and the real world is probably much closer than I could imagine, but I still feel like a little kid inside sometimes. There’s still many, many years ahead of us, and it’s amazing to know nights like these are going to be memories I’ll have with the same friends years down the road.